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		<title>By: Colin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Colin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 20:16:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1.  The benefits that society receives from gay marriage are the same as it receives from straight marriage.  Both tend to provide a greater measure of social cohesion than single living, both create support systems that have a tendency to improve people lives, both allow for raising children, etc.

2.  That said, people really don&#039;t have to justify the exercize of their rights to the state.  When I go to vote, I don&#039;t have to prove that it benefits the state.  If the state wants to deny people a right, the burden is on the state to prove why that would be necessary.  The potential proofs that have been offered here fail because they also apply to straight marriage, which noone has suggested be outlawed.

3.  You&#039;re on the wrong side of history.  Over any period of time you choose, the trend is clear -- gay people are getting their rights recognized.  Whether you like it or not, this is gonna happen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1.  The benefits that society receives from gay marriage are the same as it receives from straight marriage.  Both tend to provide a greater measure of social cohesion than single living, both create support systems that have a tendency to improve people lives, both allow for raising children, etc.</p>
<p>2.  That said, people really don&#8217;t have to justify the exercize of their rights to the state.  When I go to vote, I don&#8217;t have to prove that it benefits the state.  If the state wants to deny people a right, the burden is on the state to prove why that would be necessary.  The potential proofs that have been offered here fail because they also apply to straight marriage, which noone has suggested be outlawed.</p>
<p>3.  You&#8217;re on the wrong side of history.  Over any period of time you choose, the trend is clear &#8212; gay people are getting their rights recognized.  Whether you like it or not, this is gonna happen.</p>
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		<title>By: Celtic Tide</title>
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		<dc:creator>Celtic Tide</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 16:17:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jon, The devil is in the details of the number you cite. It would be interesting to see the number of failed marriages where there are children involved, I don&#039;t have any idea of what it would be but my opinion is that childred are better off if a two parent household and that is the benefit that society gets from hetero marriage.

As I stated in my initial post, gay marriage is a good topic for discussion and consideration, one that I&#039;ve been open to for some time, just tell me how the world will be a better place for everyone if it is. Noone has tried to do that here yet, why?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jon, The devil is in the details of the number you cite. It would be interesting to see the number of failed marriages where there are children involved, I don&#8217;t have any idea of what it would be but my opinion is that childred are better off if a two parent household and that is the benefit that society gets from hetero marriage.</p>
<p>As I stated in my initial post, gay marriage is a good topic for discussion and consideration, one that I&#8217;ve been open to for some time, just tell me how the world will be a better place for everyone if it is. Noone has tried to do that here yet, why?</p>
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		<title>By: Strikeslip</title>
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		<dc:creator>Strikeslip</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 03:26:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I thought the rationale in Martinez v Monroe County was &quot;interesting&quot; in the sense that the judges either have an agenda or they are ignorant.

&quot;For well over a century, New York has recognized marriages solemnized outside of New York unless they fall into two categories of exception: (1) marriage, the recognition of which is prohibited by the “positive law” of New York and (2) marriages involving incest or polygamy, both of which fall within the prohibitions of “natural law” . . . The judges then go on to find that neither exception applied.

The &quot;natural law&quot; part really seemed screwy . . . and the explanation was given short shrift in the decision.

Since when is polygamy against &quot;natural&quot; law?  Polygamy was part of human history for thousands of years, and is still practiced (and accepted) in some parts of the world.  I can&#039;t see where polygamy is &quot;unnatural&quot; ... although in western society it is illegal (but maybe not in Texas anymore).

That said, &quot;Gay marriage,&quot; biologically, is undeniably unnatural because the sex organs of the couple do not fit together. The fact that we don&#039;t have a long history of gay marriage (unlike polygamy) is perhaps due to the fact that it is  NOT &quot;natural.&quot;

Were the judges asleep in class when sodomy was discussed . . . and about failure to &quot;consummate&quot; a marriage being a ground for divorce?  How does one &quot;consummate&quot; a gay marriage without committing a crime? Perhaps we no longer have to deal with such incongruencies because laws have been liberalized. . . . but the laws certainly reflected what the court considered to be the &quot;natural law&quot; ... but they ignored them.

Frankly, I think we pay our judges far too much if this decision reflects the quality of their thought processes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought the rationale in Martinez v Monroe County was &#8220;interesting&#8221; in the sense that the judges either have an agenda or they are ignorant.</p>
<p>&#8220;For well over a century, New York has recognized marriages solemnized outside of New York unless they fall into two categories of exception: (1) marriage, the recognition of which is prohibited by the “positive law” of New York and (2) marriages involving incest or polygamy, both of which fall within the prohibitions of “natural law” . . . The judges then go on to find that neither exception applied.</p>
<p>The &#8220;natural law&#8221; part really seemed screwy . . . and the explanation was given short shrift in the decision.</p>
<p>Since when is polygamy against &#8220;natural&#8221; law?  Polygamy was part of human history for thousands of years, and is still practiced (and accepted) in some parts of the world.  I can&#8217;t see where polygamy is &#8220;unnatural&#8221; &#8230; although in western society it is illegal (but maybe not in Texas anymore).</p>
<p>That said, &#8220;Gay marriage,&#8221; biologically, is undeniably unnatural because the sex organs of the couple do not fit together. The fact that we don&#8217;t have a long history of gay marriage (unlike polygamy) is perhaps due to the fact that it is  NOT &#8220;natural.&#8221;</p>
<p>Were the judges asleep in class when sodomy was discussed . . . and about failure to &#8220;consummate&#8221; a marriage being a ground for divorce?  How does one &#8220;consummate&#8221; a gay marriage without committing a crime? Perhaps we no longer have to deal with such incongruencies because laws have been liberalized. . . . but the laws certainly reflected what the court considered to be the &#8220;natural law&#8221; &#8230; but they ignored them.</p>
<p>Frankly, I think we pay our judges far too much if this decision reflects the quality of their thought processes.</p>
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		<title>By: Jon Splett</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jon Splett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 00:17:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What the hell kind of benefit are we getting from marriage again?

A 50% divorce rate? I&#039;m pretty sure my taxes are paying the salaries of the judges hearing those cases. How exactly is that beneficial to society?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What the hell kind of benefit are we getting from marriage again?</p>
<p>A 50% divorce rate? I&#8217;m pretty sure my taxes are paying the salaries of the judges hearing those cases. How exactly is that beneficial to society?</p>
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		<title>By: Eisenbart</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eisenbart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 22:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We&#039;re 6 years behind Germany in this issue. The US seems to be falling behind on a lot of fronts. No wonder with people like Celtic talking non sense like he knows something about this issue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re 6 years behind Germany in this issue. The US seems to be falling behind on a lot of fronts. No wonder with people like Celtic talking non sense like he knows something about this issue.</p>
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		<title>By: Celtic Tide</title>
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		<dc:creator>Celtic Tide</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 21:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Right Colin, groundless and discriminatory. As if the public should pay for something that we do not benefit from in some way. Where else does this happen in society. There is a real, rational, positive contribution that can be cited for nearly all public programs and policies, why don&#039;t you try to articulate them for gay marriage rather that whining about discrimination?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Right Colin, groundless and discriminatory. As if the public should pay for something that we do not benefit from in some way. Where else does this happen in society. There is a real, rational, positive contribution that can be cited for nearly all public programs and policies, why don&#8217;t you try to articulate them for gay marriage rather that whining about discrimination?</p>
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		<title>By: Colin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Colin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 16:25:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Celtic,

Withholding the rights and privileges that are routinely granted to people on the basis of marriage simply because the people involved are gay is discriminatory.  Unless there is some rational reason to do so that is specific to gay people, it shouldn&#039;t stand.  The cost of those rights and privileges isn&#039;t such a reason, as they are just as costly when granted to straight couples.  Your judgment that straight marriages are more beneficial to society than gay marriages is groundless.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Celtic,</p>
<p>Withholding the rights and privileges that are routinely granted to people on the basis of marriage simply because the people involved are gay is discriminatory.  Unless there is some rational reason to do so that is specific to gay people, it shouldn&#8217;t stand.  The cost of those rights and privileges isn&#8217;t such a reason, as they are just as costly when granted to straight couples.  Your judgment that straight marriages are more beneficial to society than gay marriages is groundless.</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 02:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know if it&#039;s been said already; I didn&#039;t feel like reading through people arguing, but under the Full Faith and Credit clause of the Constitution, any state has to recognize &quot;Acts, Records, and Judicial Proceedings of any other state.&quot;

As I interpret it, this makes Paterson&#039;s statement superfluous. Perhaps someday the Constitution will be changed. But as of right now, it seems to me that discrimination against same-sex couples who have a civil union is unconstitutional.

As for the moral issues (for the moral and the legal must be kept separate, or else anyone can spin the argument in any direction he wants), I feel that there is nothing wrong with same-sex couples. I am a practicing Roman Catholic and, knowing that homosexuality occurs naturally and is not a choice, refuse to discriminate against someone based on how God made him. On that note, however, I do think that marriage is a religious institution defined as a union of a man and a women and should not be used to describe same-sex couples who have been granted civil rights by a government.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s been said already; I didn&#8217;t feel like reading through people arguing, but under the Full Faith and Credit clause of the Constitution, any state has to recognize &#8220;Acts, Records, and Judicial Proceedings of any other state.&#8221;</p>
<p>As I interpret it, this makes Paterson&#8217;s statement superfluous. Perhaps someday the Constitution will be changed. But as of right now, it seems to me that discrimination against same-sex couples who have a civil union is unconstitutional.</p>
<p>As for the moral issues (for the moral and the legal must be kept separate, or else anyone can spin the argument in any direction he wants), I feel that there is nothing wrong with same-sex couples. I am a practicing Roman Catholic and, knowing that homosexuality occurs naturally and is not a choice, refuse to discriminate against someone based on how God made him. On that note, however, I do think that marriage is a religious institution defined as a union of a man and a women and should not be used to describe same-sex couples who have been granted civil rights by a government.</p>
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		<title>By: freida</title>
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		<dc:creator>freida</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 00:15:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Hudson, I saw it. Father Pfleger said
Clinton&#039;s eyes welled with tears before the New Hampshire primary because she felt &quot;entitled&quot; to the Democratic nomination and because &quot;there&#039;s a black man stealing my show.&quot;

&quot;She just always thought that, &#039;This is mine. I&#039;m Bill&#039;s wife. I&#039;m white.&#039; ...

I think He hit the nail right on the head.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Hudson, I saw it. Father Pfleger said<br />
Clinton&#8217;s eyes welled with tears before the New Hampshire primary because she felt &#8220;entitled&#8221; to the Democratic nomination and because &#8220;there&#8217;s a black man stealing my show.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;She just always thought that, &#8216;This is mine. I&#8217;m Bill&#8217;s wife. I&#8217;m white.&#8217; &#8230;</p>
<p>I think He hit the nail right on the head.</p>
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		<title>By: Chaz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chaz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 23:28:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Let me guess, Buffalo Pundit is an attorney or law clerk and let me guess this too, he is a corporate attorney or piss boy at a local ambulance chaser.

Too funny!

It doesn&#039;t get much richer than that.

People like Pundit try break away from their mundane attorney lives and bring their less than stellar leagl opinion to forums like blogs.  It makes them think they are smarter.

He stated earlier that my definition of democracy was narrow, clearly his is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let me guess, Buffalo Pundit is an attorney or law clerk and let me guess this too, he is a corporate attorney or piss boy at a local ambulance chaser.</p>
<p>Too funny!</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t get much richer than that.</p>
<p>People like Pundit try break away from their mundane attorney lives and bring their less than stellar leagl opinion to forums like blogs.  It makes them think they are smarter.</p>
<p>He stated earlier that my definition of democracy was narrow, clearly his is.</p>
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